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The Growing Up Program (GUP) for Parents/Carers

The Growing Up Program (GUP) is Tasmania’s leading relationships, sexuality and protective behaviours’ program for students from Kindergarten through to year 6.

It is facilitated by an experienced team of Family Planning Tasmania educators, and is age and developmentally appropriate, sequential, and evidence-based.

The program is mapped to the:

  • Australian Curriculum
  • Early Years learning Framework
  • Respectful Relationships Teaching and Learning Package

GUP reflects the latest in sexual and reproductive health research, and aims to maximise learning outcomes, and increase positive communication between parents /carers and their child/children.

Growing Up educators will encourage children to talk to their families and other trusted adults and consider their own/family’s beliefs and values.

Family Planning Tasmania recommends that students be provided with relationships, sexuality and protective behaviors’ education each year.

Key GUP Focus areas for Kindergarten to Year 2

  • Identity- begin to understand identity, learning to respect and value diversity in self and in others.
  • Respectful Language – accurate and respectful language including the correct names for body parts
  • Growth and Change – exploring how their body changes from a baby to a child
  • Wellbeing – Promotion of physical, social, emotional and mental health and wellbeing.
  • Respectful Relationships – developing basic skills to understand their rights and responsibilities.
  • Protective Behaviors – correctly naming body parts and identifying those that are private; understanding the difference between public and private places; types of touch; and learning to identify the warning signs their body may display in a situation that is not ok, uncomfortable or unsafe.
  • Help Seeking Behaviors – how to seek help when needed.

Key GUP focus areas for Years 3 and 4

  • Identity – understanding  identity, learning to respect and value diversity in others.
  • Respectful Language – including correct name for body parts and functions
  • Growth and Change- understanding how their body works and why changes occur as they grow older.
  • Puberty – understanding puberty and learning how to manage changes.
  • Conception & birth – exploring how babies are made and correcting common myths and misinformation.
  • Wellbeing – promotion of physical, social, emotional and mental health and wellbeing.
  • Respectful Relationships – developing skills to understand their rights and responsibilities.
  • Protective behaviors – types of touch; online safety; and learning to identify the warning signs their body may display in a situation that is not ok, uncomfortable or unsafe.
  • Help Seeking Behaviors – how and when to seek help, including opportunity to analyse and respond to scenario situations where help may need to be sought for self and/or others.

Key GUP focus areas for Year 4 / 5 combined class

  • Identity – understanding their identity, learning to respect and value diversity in others.
  • Respectful Language – including correct names for body parts and functions
  • Growth, Change & Puberty – exploring the physical, social and emotional changes and influences of puberty, and developing skills and strategies they can use to manage these changes
  • Conception & birth – exploring how babies are made and correcting common myths and misinformation.
  • Wellbeing – promotion of physical, social, emotional and mental health and wellbeing.
  • Respectful Relationships – developing skills to understand their rights and responsibilities.
  • Protective behaviors – types of touch; online safety; and learning to identify the warning signs their body may display in a situation that is not ok, uncomfortable or unsafe.
  • Help Seeking Behaviors – how and when to seek help, including opportunity to analyse and respond to scenario situations where help may need to be sought for self and/or others.

Key GUP focus areas for Year 5 and 6

  • Identity – students are encouraged to look at their beliefs and values and those of others, and explore what it is that makes people who they are.
  • Respecting Diversity – recognition of similarities and differences between people and learning to value and respect diversity.
  • Growth, Change & Puberty – exploring the physical, social and emotional changes and influences of puberty in greater depth, and develop and appraise skills and strategies they can use to manage these changes. Investigating the reproductive system.
  • Exploring Wellbeing strategies to promote physical, social, emotional and mental health and wellbeing.
  • Respectful relationships – exploring the rights and responsibilities of themselves and others and understanding what is ok and not ok in different types of relationships.
  • Decision making – exploring the process of decision making, taking into account the choices we make, influences, and the impact these have on ourselves and others. E.g. risk-taking and the law.
  • Managing Influence – recognising how media, peers and others in the community, including social media, influence respectful relationships and healthy decision making.
  • Protective Behaviors – previous knowledge is reinforced with emphasis placed on recognising the characteristics of a respectful relationship and balance of power within respectful relationships.
  • Help Seeking Behaviors – how and when to seek help, online safety, and gives opportunity to analyse and respond to scenario situations where help may need to be sought.

Will the classroom teacher attend the Growing Up Program?

Yes, the classroom teachers will be present so that they are aware of what has been taught, and can support students and answer any questions after the program.

Can I meet with the Educator delivering the program?

Family Planning Tasmania recommends all GUP schools host a parent/carer information session before the program starts. This session will answer many of your questions about course content and student wellbeing. This is also a great opportunity to discuss any questions or concerns you may have. If you wish to talk to an Educator outside of the information session, please contact Family Planning Tasmania.

What if a child in the class asks a question that my child is not ready for?

Educators are prepared for questions to be asked by children throughout their sessions. These questions will be met with respectful, age-appropriate answers.

How can I support the program from home?

Educators will encourage your child/children to talk with you about what they have learnt, but you may need to start the conversation for them. Keep communication open; it is ok to take time to consider your response to a question rather than feeling you must answer straight away. You can read more here.

Is it necessary for my child to be learning about puberty at such a young age?

The Growing Up Program introduces the topic of puberty at grade 3 and builds upon these concepts as students move through the upper primary school years.

Research has found that children in Australia are showing signs of puberty earlier than in the past. An Australian study found that 16% of girls and 7% of boys are showing definite signs of puberty at 8-9 years of age, with 74% of girls and 53% of boys showing signs by 10-11 years of age (Growing Up in Australia: The Longitudinal Study of Australian Children).

This highlights the importance of discussing puberty and the changes children can expect to occur at this age, as many young people will be beginning to notice signs of puberty, or recognise changes in their peers.

Why does my child need to be taught protective behaviours?

The Growing Up Program introduces protective behaviours in a very gentle way. The program supports children to develop the knowledge and skills to identify when a situation is not ok, making them feel unsafe, or when they might need to seek help. It also supports them in identifying how and where to access help should they need it.

Why does my child need to be taught online safety?

It is important for children to be taught online-safety early on so that they develop safe online habits and understand the importance of speaking to a trusted adult if they ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe online.

Unfortunately many young people are being exposed to pornography at a young age, and this exposure is influencing their perceptions of respectful relationships. Studies show that young people often encounter online pornography well before the age of 18, with 13 being the average age of their first encounter (eSafety Commissioner -Accidental, Unsolicited and in Your Face, 2023). This does not mean that the viewing is intentional, for many children the viewing of adult content  can be accidental.

By educating children about safe online practices early on, it is hoped that accidental viewing of content will reduce, and children will know how to respond and who to talk to if help or advice is ever needed.

I am concerned about the age at which young people are becoming sexualised. Why can’t we just let kids be kids?

Our program is age and developmentally appropriate and is focussed on increasing the safety and health of young people and acts as a protective factor against sexualisation.

“Research suggests …., discussion of healthy sexuality leads to increased body confidence and self-esteem, which are factors that protect individuals from being sexually abused.” (Talking to your kids about sex |Psychology Today, March 31, 2022).  

Click here for a fantastic resource for families, Talk Soon, Talk Often

Other Useful Information

We have created articles specifically for parents and carers to support your young people around their sexual and reproductive health. Click the button below to read these articles.

Advice and Information for Parents & Carers
GUP Flyer
Article on The Conversation 'Australian parents want schools to teach more sex education topics and teach them from an earlier age'.

If you have any questions or concerns, please use the below contact form.

Parent & Carer Contact Form - Growing Up Program

Please complete this form if you have any questions or concerns to raise with our Education team around your young person's participation in the Growing Up Program. One of our friendly educators will be in contact around your concern.

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Parent & Carer Information Session Video Series

We have created a video series that provides additional information for parents and carers of students about to start the Growing Up Program.

Introduction Video

Video 1 – What is the Growing Up Program?

Video 2 – Kindergarten to Year 2

Video 3 – Years 3 & 4

Video 4 – Years 5 & 6

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